What is the worst thing that could happen to a guy hateful in the eyes of everyone in his world? --Humiliation.
Yes, I discussed about him previously. If you forgot who this guy is, please don't recall, for I wouldn't really want to get into trouble for gossiping about a person whom I have to see every weekdays. This guy really got himself into serious humiliation today, and on Monday. Rubbish handwriting. Rubbish manners. Rubbish habits. And worst of all: Rubbish social attitude.
Can anyone in this world, other than the benevolent people like Mother Theresa, ever tolerate someone who digs his nose and shoots it on other people, never admit defeat even though it was just a game of Captain's Ball, cannot stop stalking guys, and is a total introvert? He has stirred unease among the entire class, along with all his other ex-classmates, much less his ex-schoolmates. Basically, everyone hate him. For he stirred up major social conflicts and unease that no one wants to get near him.
There are two kinds of conflict for all I know: Internal and External. This poor dude has both, though the latter seems more of a hazard.
Let's imagine we were the Kings and Queens of our own castle. To bring upon peace, we first have to settle down in peace within our own nations, before proceeding to establishing diplomacy with other nations. This means that we have to place internal conflicts as priority over external conflicts.
Just like that movie "Kung Fu Panda", to find peace we have to first find inner peace. This applies to dragon warrior and non-dragon warriors alike.
This guy, however, failed to resolve his own internal conflict, thus he loses faith in himself and "became more than one of himself". He has mixed personality disorders, mainly paranoia. Still, I don't quite understand paranoid people... Anyways, today, this guy was paired with a girl, who shouted in despair upon being selected to pair with him. She backed away and shoved another guy in between them. The class burst into laughter. My English teacher then asked, "I don't understand. What is this about?" After school, I asked her why she wanted to avoid that guy so badly, and she replied, "He's so disgusting. Who would want him anyways?"
From a critical-thinker's perspective, I find that this guy has already made poor, if not disastrous, impressions in ALL his classmates. That includes me, of course. Despite my forgiving personality, I still cannot let this guy off. If there was one thing he needs to change... That would be his attitude. He has to be a one and only person, not a maelstrom of extreme personalities. Who can be hyper, emotional, wise, vigilant, a team player and a leader all at one? Nothing is impossible. So he still has a chance to amend. However this will depend solely on his resolve and will to overcome his negative attitude so as not to be portrayed in an undeserved, conflicted negative light.
